Yes, the gendered aspect of "bitch" is actually problematic, you should have led with that! Furthermore, I can't honestly say how she'd take it, either, and it is meant to be offensive a little (if not in that way), but my point is she's got issues but I'm not letting this incident change our relationship (which is still just Internet friends who met one time). If me calling her a "bitch" did change it for her, however, then obviously we've always deserved each other.
But "best buds" is so obviously sarcastic, I mean, come on, Green Reaper! (Which seems to contradict the whole "we're cool now" argument, but, uh, relationships change over time.)
Yes, the gendered aspect of "bitch" is actually problematic, you should have led with that! Furthermore, I can't honestly say how she'd take it, either, and it is meant to be offensive a little (if not in that way), but my point is she's got issues but I'm not letting this incident change our relationship (which is still just Internet friends who met one time). If me calling her a "bitch" did change it for her, however, then obviously we've always deserved each other.
But "best buds" is so obviously sarcastic, I mean, come on, Green Reaper! (Which seems to contradict the whole "we're cool now" argument, but, uh, relationships change over time.)