Relationships do not work that way, and it especially doesn't work that way when the relationship is abusive. If it was that simple then there wouldn't be any abusive relationships. For one reason or another people can't always just leave a relationship when it is bad, and a lot of times it is because the abusive partner has too much control over them for them to think of leaving. But this does not have anything to do with domination and submission. BDSM is all just play.
The stuff that Viro did has nothing to do with choosing inexperienced partners. As the more experienced person in a relationship he should be the one who knows what is and isn't OK, and it is clear that he did a lot of things that weren't OK in any kind of relationship, not even in BDSM. Stuff like financial abuse and emotional manipulation fall way outside of just being dominant. Even a person who is the submissive in a relationship can be abusive in these ways. You really shouldn't defend that sort of stuff.
Relationships do not work that way, and it especially doesn't work that way when the relationship is abusive. If it was that simple then there wouldn't be any abusive relationships. For one reason or another people can't always just leave a relationship when it is bad, and a lot of times it is because the abusive partner has too much control over them for them to think of leaving. But this does not have anything to do with domination and submission. BDSM is all just play.
The stuff that Viro did has nothing to do with choosing inexperienced partners. As the more experienced person in a relationship he should be the one who knows what is and isn't OK, and it is clear that he did a lot of things that weren't OK in any kind of relationship, not even in BDSM. Stuff like financial abuse and emotional manipulation fall way outside of just being dominant. Even a person who is the submissive in a relationship can be abusive in these ways. You really shouldn't defend that sort of stuff.