If you ask me as a sub, him wanting to use your funds for his expenses is a dead giveaway. Nothing more easily identifiable than that. Giving your cash away / spending on him is a proactive action against your best interest. The biggest red flag you can get.
If Viro had a business idea that was viable he would have been able to get a credit loan. But heteronormal relationships also have this 'giving money away' thing and even glamourize it as chivalry. And some males fetishize about this kind of leeching as well. Go figure.
The checks and balances are, no one is anyone else's ATM.
If you ask me as a sub, him wanting to use your funds for his expenses is a dead giveaway. Nothing more easily identifiable than that. Giving your cash away / spending on him is a proactive action against your best interest. The biggest red flag you can get.
If Viro had a business idea that was viable he would have been able to get a credit loan. But heteronormal relationships also have this 'giving money away' thing and even glamourize it as chivalry. And some males fetishize about this kind of leeching as well. Go figure.
The checks and balances are, no one is anyone else's ATM.