It doesn't matter if one is inexperienced or not. Even if the sub was completely inexperienced and just going along with whatever was said or done, then the dominant should have seen there was a problem and stopped things. There is the phrase "safe, sane and consensual." Consent is extremely important but even in the best case scenario, it sounds like the safe and sane aspects were not given the necessary attention.
"If all mankind minus one, were of one opinion, and only one person were of the contrary opinion, mankind would be no more justified in silencing that one person, than he, if he had the power, would be justified in silencing mankind."
~John Stuart Mill~
It doesn't matter if one is inexperienced or not. Even if the sub was completely inexperienced and just going along with whatever was said or done, then the dominant should have seen there was a problem and stopped things. There is the phrase "safe, sane and consensual." Consent is extremely important but even in the best case scenario, it sounds like the safe and sane aspects were not given the necessary attention.
"If all mankind minus one, were of one opinion, and only one person were of the contrary opinion, mankind would be no more justified in silencing that one person, than he, if he had the power, would be justified in silencing mankind."
~John Stuart Mill~