When discussing this situation of power play, I suggested implementing a universal and publicly known safe phrase so that outsiders can more easily identify when something is power play or actual abuse.
Clearly a system of checks and balances are needed, as it seems some dominates are taking advantage of the ambiguity to be actually abusive toward their lovers.
Amusing isn't quite the word I'd use about this.
When discussing this situation of power play, I suggested implementing a universal and publicly known safe phrase so that outsiders can more easily identify when something is power play or actual abuse.
Clearly a system of checks and balances are needed, as it seems some dominates are taking advantage of the ambiguity to be actually abusive toward their lovers.