So you're using you poor experience with one black individual to paint your perspectives on the entire race? That's a bit unfair to those that aren't your ex. I know similarly that there are individuals who have experienced furry through the lens of on bad furry and so they would view the rest of us through that lens. I guess it's a normal human condition of generality, but it is important to point out that it is still a projection.
I mean, if you first poor relationship was with a white guy would you see whites in the same lens? I mean, there are some white people out there whom are pretty abusive with the way they treat others as well. My guess is you're probably surrounding yourself with some in this Raider's group without even realizing it.
In your own words:
As with my ex, there comes a point where it becomes obvious the good I was hoping would surface in nasty people was never there to begin with. It was just my own foolish wishful thinking, based on an antiquated philosophy that there is good in everyone. And, yes, in that respect, I am a well proven idiot.
So in this instance how are we supposed to trust your judgement when you tell us "Well these Raiders guy's they're just misunderstood and they're actually good people", while in another breath telling us you essentially have a poor batting average with determining who is actually good or being exploitative?
You may be one whom is vulnerable to exploitation, but if you are don't get angry when we don't follow your advise on who is trustworthy and has the best interest of others in mind.
I'm sorry people took advantage, and continue to take advantage of you.
So you're using you poor experience with one black individual to paint your perspectives on the entire race? That's a bit unfair to those that aren't your ex. I know similarly that there are individuals who have experienced furry through the lens of on bad furry and so they would view the rest of us through that lens. I guess it's a normal human condition of generality, but it is important to point out that it is still a projection.
I mean, if you first poor relationship was with a white guy would you see whites in the same lens? I mean, there are some white people out there whom are pretty abusive with the way they treat others as well. My guess is you're probably surrounding yourself with some in this Raider's group without even realizing it.
In your own words:
So in this instance how are we supposed to trust your judgement when you tell us "Well these Raiders guy's they're just misunderstood and they're actually good people", while in another breath telling us you essentially have a poor batting average with determining who is actually good or being exploitative?
You may be one whom is vulnerable to exploitation, but if you are don't get angry when we don't follow your advise on who is trustworthy and has the best interest of others in mind.
I'm sorry people took advantage, and continue to take advantage of you.