Hate doesn't come from nowhere, but where it does come from I think is one of the most misunderstood things in our society. It's a bunch of complex variables.
From what I have seen though it typically spawns from one of two things
1) Someone was (or feels they were) wronged by someone.
2) Someone fears someone will take something they hold dear away from them.
This hate relation can be a single person to a single person, a single person to a group, or a group to a group. It can go one way or both ways.
The interesting part though is that "I'll hate people who hate" is actually following the "Golden Rule" a pretty popular morale code. Instead I personally upgrade to the "Platinum Rule" which is treat other better than you expect treat yourself. This has worked because there are people out there who react to the same sets of stimuli different then I do, and because of this it's important to learn why they feel the way about things they do than to shove them off.
Of course, there are those who become so wrapped up in it that'd probably kill you then speak with you. The fact is everyone was born of this world with someone hating them. For some family out there doesn't care for yours, or a foreigner hates you because you were born in a particular geographic location. So one must always understand if their goal is to not be hated by anyone, than you must be known by no one and must have no identity.
Hate doesn't come from nowhere, but where it does come from I think is one of the most misunderstood things in our society. It's a bunch of complex variables.
From what I have seen though it typically spawns from one of two things
1) Someone was (or feels they were) wronged by someone.
2) Someone fears someone will take something they hold dear away from them.
This hate relation can be a single person to a single person, a single person to a group, or a group to a group. It can go one way or both ways.
The interesting part though is that "I'll hate people who hate" is actually following the "Golden Rule" a pretty popular morale code. Instead I personally upgrade to the "Platinum Rule" which is treat other better than you expect treat yourself. This has worked because there are people out there who react to the same sets of stimuli different then I do, and because of this it's important to learn why they feel the way about things they do than to shove them off.
Of course, there are those who become so wrapped up in it that'd probably kill you then speak with you. The fact is everyone was born of this world with someone hating them. For some family out there doesn't care for yours, or a foreigner hates you because you were born in a particular geographic location. So one must always understand if their goal is to not be hated by anyone, than you must be known by no one and must have no identity.