You're entitled to your opinion on the role and propriety of how sexuality fits with the furry fandom. But I think you will find that a large majority of furry fans will take the positions described below.
First, they will agree with you that furry is not a sexual fetish. It is first and foremost an interest in anthropomorphic animals, in many aspects and on many levels, a good portion of which have nothing to do with sexuality.
Second, many furry fans have at least some degree of interest in art, stories, and other aspects that include a sexual element, porn if you will. Some do not, but most of those recognize and are okay with the fact that it exists. You can complain all you want but it's not going to go away.
Finally, you'll find there are a lot of differing opinions on what is or isn't furry, and you'll find it a lot easier to get along if you recognize that instead of trying to push your view as the truth.
You're entitled to your opinion on the role and propriety of how sexuality fits with the furry fandom. But I think you will find that a large majority of furry fans will take the positions described below.
First, they will agree with you that furry is not a sexual fetish. It is first and foremost an interest in anthropomorphic animals, in many aspects and on many levels, a good portion of which have nothing to do with sexuality.
Second, many furry fans have at least some degree of interest in art, stories, and other aspects that include a sexual element, porn if you will. Some do not, but most of those recognize and are okay with the fact that it exists. You can complain all you want but it's not going to go away.
Finally, you'll find there are a lot of differing opinions on what is or isn't furry, and you'll find it a lot easier to get along if you recognize that instead of trying to push your view as the truth.