I am the same Anon that wrote one thread of responses above (registration never worked for me, and I don't care enough to stick a name on posts).
Both situations you give are quite similar, in the sense they both involve someone getting upset about someone else making judgemental statements that disagree with what they've seen before, which is especially understandable in cases where the statements are coming from an outsider lacking any effort to see where such people were coming from.
But I don't think a second thread needs to derail into off-topic...
I am the same Anon that wrote one thread of responses above (registration never worked for me, and I don't care enough to stick a name on posts).
Both situations you give are quite similar, in the sense they both involve someone getting upset about someone else making judgemental statements that disagree with what they've seen before, which is especially understandable in cases where the statements are coming from an outsider lacking any effort to see where such people were coming from.
But I don't think a second thread needs to derail into off-topic...