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Feral Attraction is a relationship and sex advice podcast serving as a resource to the furry community. Visit us at www.feralattraction.com to view our show notes, read our advice column, or ask us a question for us to use on the show.
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FA 010 The Campsite Rule - How do you handle relationships with a significant age or experience difference? Also, should you have sex with an ex?

Wed 16 Mar 2016 - 18:00

Hello Everyone!

Episode Ten! Wow, it's been ten weeks of this show-- thanks for your support and listening in!

Today we discuss the Campsite Rule, a concept that deals with intergenerational relationships (or relationships with drastic experience differences). How can you be in a relationship ethically when you are with a partner who is much younger than you, or much less experienced at relationships / sex / intimacy than you? We also talk about whether or not you should have sex with an ex, especially after you've just broken up.

For more information, including a list of topics by timestamp, see our Show Notes for this episode.

Thanks and, as always, be well!

FA 010 The Campsite Rule - How do you handle relationships with a significant age or experience difference? Also, should you have sex with an ex?
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FA 009 Emotional Bandwidth - How to manage your friends and relationships without losing your soul.

Wed 9 Mar 2016 - 19:00

Hello Everyone!

How do you know when you are tapped out emotionally and can not really support new connections? How do you let people down when they are interested in you but you don't reciprocate the feeling? How do you talk to people who can only make small talk? Also, how do you handle a relationship when you aren't in the best financial position?

For more information, including a list of topics by timestamp, see our Show Notes for this episode.

Thanks and, as always, be well!

FA 009 Emotional Bandwidth - How to manage your friends and relationships without losing your soul.
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FA 008 Owning Your Sh*t - How do you take ownership of your emotional baggage

Fri 4 Mar 2016 - 19:00

Hello Everyone!

Tonight we talk about you again. If episode seven is about loving yourself, this episode is about accepting the darker, less fun parts of yourself and how to ensure you are not self-sabotaging your relationship. It's about accepting yourself-- faults and all-- and moving forward in life. It's a tricky subject, but we'll get through it together!

For more information, including a list of topics by timestamp, see our Show Notes for this episode.

Thanks and, as always, be well!

FA 008 Owning Your Sh*t - How do you take ownership of your emotional baggage
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FA 007 Loving Yourself - How do you love yourself before loving others?

Fri 26 Feb 2016 - 21:44

Hello everyone! 

On this week's episode we tackle the tricky topic (try saying that five times fast!) of how to love yourself. This can be difficult, especially in the fandom where many people struggle with positive self-identity. We talk about why it's important to start here before getting into a relationship, and we also talk about how to ensure you don't take it too far and end up a narcissist. 

Note:  We are aware of the small audio issue around 0:31:00 into the episode, but unfortunately there is nothing we can do there and hopefully it does not detract too much from your enjoyment. 

For more information, including a list of topics by timestamp, see our Show Notes for this episode.

Thanks and, as always, be well!

FA 007 Loving Yourself - How do you love yourself before loving others?
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FA 006 Breakups - How do you breakup with grace?

Wed 17 Feb 2016 - 18:59

Hello everyone! 

Breakups suck. But how can they suck less? When should you call it quits and how should you breakup without causing drama in the fandom? Also, how do you handle jealousy from a mate that is not in the fandom?

For more information, including a list of topics by timestamp, see our Show Notes for this episode.

Thanks and, as always, be well!

CONTENT WARNING: We discuss abuse and physical assault in this episode. Please see the show notes for time stamps if you would rather avoid those topics!!

FA 006 Breakups - How do you breakup with grace?
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FA 005 Integrity - Ethics, morals, and being a better you

Wed 10 Feb 2016 - 19:06

Hello Everyone!

This week we talk about Integrity. While much of what we say is, again, common sense, it is important to discuss the ethics of the furry community and how we, as a fandom, can be better to each other. Also, we answer the question of what it is like to live in a Pack House. 

For more information, including a list of topics by timestamp, see our Show Notes for this episode.

Thanks and, as always, be well!

FA 005 Integrity - Ethics, morals, and being a better you
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FA 004 Netiquette - How should furries behave on the internet

Wed 3 Feb 2016 - 19:19

Hello Everyone!

This week we have a more lighthearted discussion about Netiquette. While much of what we say might be seen as common sense, it is important to go over it from time to time. How do you tell someone that their artwork turned you on without turning them off to you? Should you send porn to Tony the Tiger? Also, how do you handle a breakup?

For more information, including a list of topics by timestamp, see our Show Notes for this episode.

Thanks and, as always, be well!

FA 004 Netiquette - How should furries behave on the internet
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FA 003 Non-Monogamous Furry Relationships 101 - A presentation of Viro the Science Collie's panel at ANE2016

Thu 28 Jan 2016 - 22:33

Hello Everyone!

While this might seem like a review of previous episodes, this is a presentation of Viro the Science Collie's workshop at ANE2016 (and future cons) for those who are unable to attend. You can find the actual presentation under the "Presentations" page of our website.

For more information, including a list of topics by timestamp, see our Show Notes for this episode.

Thanks and, as always, be well!

FA 003 Non-Monogamous Furry Relationships 101 - A presentation of Viro the Science Collie's panel at ANE2016
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FA 002 Nonviolent Communication - Nonviolent Communication Strategies

Wed 20 Jan 2016 - 18:59

Hello Everyone!

This episode focuses on the various nonviolent communication strategies you can employ in your relationships. We also take a listener question on the practicality of long-distance polyamorous relationships.

For more information, including a list of topics by timestamp, see our Show Notes for this episode.

Thanks and, as always, be well!

FA 002 Nonviolent Communication - Nonviolent Communication Strategies
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FA 001 Relationship Structures - Relationship Styles and Definitions

Sun 10 Jan 2016 - 15:39

Hello Everyone!

On this episode we discuss relationship terminology: what are the different types of relationship structures found commonly in the fandom? Also, how do you handle jealousy in a relationship?

For more information, including a list of topics by timestamp, see our Show Notes for this episode.

Thanks and, as always, be well!

FA 001 Relationship Structures - Relationship Styles and Definitions
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